Are you
thinking about the positive achievements, the frustrations or the outright negatives?
We often
spend time reflecting on the year past and re-setting for the year ahead.
In
Australia, is it more socially acceptable to be self-deprecating than it is to
be self-congratulatory.
When relaxing
at the Christmas Party, we will laugh at ourselves over the client order that
was mucked up or the complaint that was misunderstood. We will laugh off the dreadful
recruiting decision we made and discovering new assistant accountant was
sleeping in the office having given a false address and how when checking the
address, it turned out to be a vacant block of industrial land. (True Story)
It is with
this negative mentality that we tend to review the year about to conclude.
We reflect
on the errors, the mistakes and the poor decisions and allow these to dominate
how we feel about our work and the level of satisfaction we perceive.
As the days
to the end of 2017 become fewer, reflect on the things you have done well and
your successes.
Remember the
team member you supported and encouraged and who is doing a great job and
feeling great about doing so.
Be proud of
the Client you assisted, staying late because you knew that was when they were
best able to have an uninterrupted phone conversation.
Celebrate
the negotiation with the supplier resulting in an improved margin on a high volume
item or the new re-cycling program you proposed that has decreased the office
waste that goes to landfill.
In the celebrations
that are still to come this year, it is perhaps not possible to talk about your
great achievements. However, avoid talking about the negatives. Say nothing.
I suggest
that consciously mentally or physically listing achievements and successes while
refusing to participate in negative levity, will enhance self-appreciation and
result in improved personal brand and value.
What is the worst
thing that can happen?
It may only
be that when you next have that promotion or new job interview and are asked to
list your achievements, you will be ready.
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