“If I work hard
for another 6 months I will achieve the promotion then it will be easier”.
“Just 3 more
months and this project will be completed and then I can get back to normal”.
Or perhaps
it goes like this:
“Sales have
dropped off and we all have to work longer to make up for it”.
“There is a
recruiting freeze so we are covering for vacant roles”.
At different
times I have used one or more of these phrases to justify my actions and my
work habits. I have used them knowing them to be an excuse and a crux of
security.
And when
each mile stone comes around, there is another to take its place; they overlap.
One more
year wasn’t “enough”, the promotion was yet another 6 months away, then another 6 months and
each project was replaced by another.
And at the
end of the year, we look back with a sense of exhaustion
and compliment ourselves and each other on the inputs we have achieved.
But what has
been achieved and who cares?
Have you
ever taken a moment to asses, and I mean really, deep down and honestly asses
what “SUCCESS” means to you.
If we judge
success on our "inputs", we will never be successful.
Controversial
comment? Maybe, but think about it.
If “inputs”
are our measure or the crux we cling to to justify ourselves, there is always
more to give. Enough is never, ever enough. There are more hours in the day and
we will always be seeking to do more in the same space of time.
Judging our
success by way of inputs will always result in dissatisfaction, frustration and
failure.
As we
continue to look back on 2017 and forward to 2018, honestly assess what you
mean by and how you measure your own success.
If your
measure happens to be financial, do you have a figure in mind in order to know
when you have achieved success. If you are on the treadmill of always wanting
more for the sake of having more, you will never achieve success.
If this is
you, perhaps another measure will be more positive and the side benefit will be
financial gain.
Perhaps you
desire the financial success in order to buy the next car, house of holiday.
Ask yourself “who am I trying to impress”?
I will bet
that whoever it is, won’t care and won’t be impressed anyway.
If someone
is worth anything at all, they will care about “who we are” rather than by “what
we have”.
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